Valentines Day

Well today is a day about love! Love is selfless and patient and kind. Sometimes it does not look that way but that is how its supposed to be right? If you love someone then maybe you should figure out how to show them that you love them more and more each day. As a person i want to be not only told but shown that i am loved. I am not saying buy me a bunch of crap all the time. Cause honestly you should not have to buy things all the time to prove your love. Yes there are certain things to spend money on like, Engagement ring, Wedding ring, anniversary gift, birthday,and some holidays like today and Christmas. Me personally i don't the big expensive gifts. The reason is because usually how often does that gift get used? Unless its a jewelry and even then i do not see the point in buying jewelry that cost thousands and thousands of dollars. I mean yea jewelry is nice but how much jewelry do you or your other half have that just sits in a jewelry box or a drawer. Today you should be brave tell the one you have your eye on that you like them. If you have been with someone for a long time and have not found the right words to say an i love you go's a long way. If you have been married and say i love you all the time come up with some sweet mushy new stuff to say. Girls love sweet and mushy!! Some guys love it too. They will not admit it but they do. I guess today's advice is. Just be open and honest and show them you love them don't just say it.

I believe you should live life to the fullest. Do the things in life that make you the happiest. Try changing if you don't like the way life is looking. Choose a different path. People seem to make too many excuses now days. Just tell the truth be blunt and honest. If you are in an abusive relationship get out.If you find that you just do not love the person your with then get out. Do not stay to make others happy. If you feel in your heart that you are not doing the right thing then don't do it. Life comes down to the decisions and mistakes you make. Do not hold grudges because that wont get you far in life. Be grateful for the people you do have in your life. Respect those around you. Even if they might be evil just smile and ignore them eventually they will go away. I have been in situations that flat out suck but i always seem to find my way. So please look at yourself and ask yourself is this me or is it what others want me to be!! Am i really happy? Is this what i want? Am i doing the right thing. I understand that life gives you hurdles but do the best you can with what you got!

Shallow Hearts

The world is full of shallow hearts. These are the people that pay attention to every detail of every flaw that another person has. I know from experience that shallow people exist. I spent my whole childhood and most of my adulthood being judged by these type of people.There is more to people then looks. Ever heard of don't judge a book by its cover. I know people are going to read this and think whatever lady. Well i am writing here to stand up for those that have been judged. I am not perfect and i am darn proud of it. I think people who are different should be able to be who ever they want to be not who the world would like them to be. I am also here to tell people that no one,not one person is perfect. You may think you are but you have flaws just like anyone else does. When you meet someone instead of looking at them and immediately judging them give them a chance you may find out that they are more then what they seem. Guys instead of looking for that girl that is smoking hot try to find a girl that is different then what you are looking for. Girls i encourage you to do the same. Honestly i encourage everyone to go outside your comfort zone try something new.